disoblige

verb (used with object), dis·o·bliged, dis·o·blig·ing.

1. to refuse or neglect to oblige; act contrary to the desire or convenience of; fail to accommodate.
2. to give offense to; affront: to be disobliged by a tactless remark.
3. to cause inconvenience to; incommode: to be disobliged by an uninvited guest.

verb (tr)

1. to disregard the desires of
2. to slight; insult
3. informal to cause trouble or inconvenience to